Psychotherapy
Psychotherapy is a form of personal exploration that typically involves using the intellect (conscious thought) to express psycho-spiritual-somatic experience (non-conscious) resulting in the release of conflict and tension, integration of dissociated internal parts, insight into and healthier relationships with others, integration into community, spiritual evolution, improved day-to-day functioning, and an ever-deepening comprehension of what one's path is. ​People enter into therapy because they are seeking support in self-exploration, relief from psychological, somatic, and spiritual suffering, and assistance developing relational skills with partner/s and friends.
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There are many types of psychotherapy that range from working with conscious experience through thought, feeling and behavior - as in the various Cognitive Behavioral Therapies - to delving deeply into non-conscious experience to explore one's mind/heart/body and develop insight about how they came to be who they are. I integrate psychodynamic techniques (insight-oriented, relational, and engaged with non-conscious experience), somatic skills, mindfulness skills, and Internal Family Systems interventions.
Since the time of Freud through today, most of the field of mental health labels the countless manifestations of suffering as "symptoms." To say that a person is symptomatic is to claim that they are ill, which is a complicated act with psychological and political implications. For some, receiving diagnostic labels is an affirming recognition that allows them to feel taken seriously and to seek appropriate care. For others, this labeling makes individual a form of suffering that they are carrying on behalf of others. It pathologizes within the individual a problem that originates from familial, historical, and systemic forces. In this case, an individual's suffering is more skillfully located as a burden that the individual has been forced to bear because there have been no other options. This can be especially true when a person is a member of a community that has been historically marginalized and/or alienated.
​I have expertise working with adolescents and emerging adults and their families, specifically those who are queer and trans. My work is social justice-informed and incorporates an understanding of how larger systems impact us, those that structure the various forms of discrimination and oppression (racial and ethnic, sexual, gendered, religious, dis/ability, body discrimination, neurodivergence) that we all encounter and have to navigate.

Individual Psychotherapy
Individual psychotherapy is a safe space to deepen your relationship with yourself. This involves getting to know the various parts within you that play a role in making you who you are, as well as the dynamics between these parts. In individual work, you can expect to explore familial, relational, and social histories, as well as develop the capacity to be present with painful experiences and grow from them. The purpose of this is to enable you to live more in accord with your values, strengths, and longings, to relate to others in healthier and more sustainable ways, and to become integrated into community.
This form of work is appropriate for those wanting a space where they can learn to improve their life across all domains, including between heart, mind and body, between self and other, in the context of their work and when exploring vocation, navigating the direction of one's life and discernment of purpose, in healing from past trauma (including trans-generational), and as a creative member in their communities and in society at large.

Relationship Psychotherapy
Relationship psychotherapy involves bringing a relationship into the therapy. This might be in the form of a couple, a polycule, a sibling dyad/grouping, or a family system.
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This is an appropriate form of work for those seeking to explore and practice understanding and evolving their relational dynamics with each other. Sometimes this involves exploring each individual's history, however this is more focused on the here-and-now. In order to do effective relationship work, each member should be in individual therapy.
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In relational work, members focus on communication, affective and developmental blocks to physical, psychological, spiritual and emotional intimacy, psychosomatic co-/regulation skills, and differentiation between self and other.​​


Group Process
Group work includes exploring the matrix of real time dynamics underlying a group and using the understanding that arises from that exploration to reflect on one's own patterns of relationship.
Group work also includes support and discussion. Support and discussion groups allow participants to focus on a topic and develop connections with others through shared exploration of that topic/issue.
The practice of Council is a structured form of group process in which members develop their ability to connect to themselves and others through the practice of speaking and listening from the heart.
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I am collecting interest for a support-discussion group for parents of queer children. If interested, send me a message so I can keep you updated.